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Old 21st May 2008
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kalo mo berguru contact Ngkong Squall ato Ko Daniel aja tuh.
mereka pakar2nya ngerayu cewe2 innocent

3 taon pedekate gak ada yg bablas?
ikut gath ap aja.. shengshu ikut gath dpt cewe mulus asal manado tuh
(info selengkapnya harap hubungi yg bersangkutan)
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1. tergantung iman.
2. tergantung amin.


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Lo irit kata amat sih.. minta dijelasin dikit dong
Emang lagi puasa ngomong (ngetik) ya? hihihi

Jadi kalo 'beriman' boleh gitu 'iseng2 berhadiah'? Trus 'tergantung amin' itu apa artinya?
Harap diperjelas dong biar gw gak gape2 dlm gelap

gue pikir, setelah ditambahahin 'imron' sama deja, semua jadi jelas .. xixixi
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Dr yg gw liat, denger & amati (cieeeee ) kayaknya fenomena spt ini lumrah terjadi di mana2 & gw mo minta opini lo org, terutama cowo tp cewe jg plis nimbrung yee

Biarpun uda punya pacar (entah masa pacaran 1, 5, 10 taon - wuih uda buluk ) tp si cowo tetap berlaku layaknya single & ttm-an dgn siapa aja yg disuka, dgn alasan cuma iseng & tidak menyakiti siapa pun.

Catatan: si cowo membandingkan cewenya dgn ttm2nya (ngitung2 plus, minus & kira2 cocokan ama yg mana dllsb).

1) Apakah menurut kalian hal tsb lumrah & oke2 aja krn toh (katanya) cuma iseng?

2) Apakah menurut kalian dr 'iseng' tsb justru akan menggoyahkan (ato malah mengeratkan) hubungan perpacaran dgn sang pacar mengingat si cowo ampe ngebandingin cewenya dgn ttm

Di thread ini gw gak mencari salah ato bener tp cuma mo minta opini & pandangan lo org so harap opininya ya

Monggo yuuuukkk...
1.buat gw itu ga lumrah...karna buat gw kalau mau nembak cw gw berdoa dulu sama Tuhan....kalau gw di terima kan karna Tuhan,bukan karna gw gombalin atau yg lain...jadi gw berusaha menjaga hubungan itu...

2.jelas..dari iseng bisa berbuntut panjang...apa lagi yg ttm-an free sex..banyak kejadian yg hamil malah ttm-an nya...yg akhir nya dia harus berpisah sama pacarnya sendiri.....
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kok yg ditulis mprit kayaknya gw banget yah?
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wah gue blm pernah jawab ya.. hahahaha..

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Dr yg gw liat, denger & amati (cieeeee ) kayaknya fenomena spt ini lumrah terjadi di mana2 & gw mo minta opini lo org, terutama cowo tp cewe jg plis nimbrung yee

Biarpun uda punya pacar (entah masa pacaran 1, 5, 10 taon - wuih uda buluk ) tp si cowo tetap berlaku layaknya single & ttm-an dgn siapa aja yg disuka, dgn alasan cuma iseng & tidak menyakiti siapa pun.

Catatan: si cowo membandingkan cewenya dgn ttm2nya (ngitung2 plus, minus & kira2 cocokan ama yg mana dllsb).

1) Apakah menurut kalian hal tsb lumrah & oke2 aja krn toh (katanya) cuma iseng?

2) Apakah menurut kalian dr 'iseng' tsb justru akan menggoyahkan (ato malah mengeratkan) hubungan perpacaran dgn sang pacar mengingat si cowo ampe ngebandingin cewenya dgn ttm

Di thread ini gw gak mencari salah ato bener tp cuma mo minta opini & pandangan lo org so harap opininya ya

Monggo yuuuukkk...
gue ngak setuju ama catatan-nya.. gimana dong?

1) jelas lumrah dong.. emangnya temenan musti cuman ama sesama jenis doang.. how boring

2) itu dia gue ngak setuju ama nge-banding-in.. gue skip aja ya..
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jawaban ko daniel ma deja uda jelas tuch,,, tergantung iman, amin ma imron.... hehhehehe....

1. kalo sejenis melulu kan gag seru
2. ngga stj kalo banding2in. coz setiap orang pasti punya plus-minusnya sendiri2...

@shengshu: mana section bb17?? gag ada tuch gw search... sgr bikin dong....
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TTM itu gak salah, soalnya TTM gak ada tertulis dalam Taurat .....wekekeke....



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klo kata gw sih itu tergantung dari cewe nya
apkah dia menyikapinya dengan positif atau negatif
klo positif jelas itu bakal mempererat hubungan mereka
klo negatif
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1.buat gw itu ga lumrah...karna buat gw kalau mau nembak cw gw berdoa dulu sama Tuhan....kalau gw di terima kan karna Tuhan,bukan karna gw gombalin atau yg lain...jadi gw berusaha menjaga hubungan itu...

2.jelas..dari iseng bisa berbuntut panjang...apa lagi yg ttm-an free sex..banyak kejadian yg hamil malah ttm-an nya...yg akhir nya dia harus berpisah sama pacarnya sendiri.....
Mo nembak aja kudu doa dulu.. emang lo nembaknya pake paan? hihihihi
Jadi kalo diterima krn Tuhan.. kalo gak diterima krn siapa dong? *bisik2 dlm ati: pasti krn lo kurang keringetan doanya*

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gue ngak setuju ama catatan-nya.. gimana dong?

1) jelas lumrah dong.. emangnya temenan musti cuman ama sesama jenis doang.. how boring

2) itu dia gue ngak setuju ama nge-banding-in.. gue skip aja ya..
Setuju ato ga setuju sah2 aja.. tiap org pan beda2 cara pandangnya.
Yg gw mo tau adalah gimana lo pribadi memandang topik TTM-an ini.. ceilee bahasa gw

Jadi lo oke2 aja ber-ttm ria tp pasti gak akan banding2in dgn bini, gitu ya?


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Mo nembak aja kudu doa dulu.. emang lo nembaknya pake paan? hihihihi
Jadi kalo diterima krn Tuhan.. kalo gak diterima krn siapa dong? *bisik2 dlm ati: pasti krn lo kurang keringetan doanya*

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ya gw emang gitu...seblm nembak ya doa dulu....gw nembak nya ga pake pistol,pake doa aja
karna gw maunya kalau hubungan pacaran tuh didasari oleh Tuhan...
jadi gw paling anti sama yg beda agama... (sorry no offence)
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*usil mode* Emang doanya isinya paan sih?
- Minta Tuhan bukain jalan kalo jodoh spy pas nembak gak ditolak ..
- ato mungkin minta Tuhan kasih tanda apa / kapan bole nembaknya ..
- ato minta Tuhan kasih tanda lewat mimpi kata2 yg kudu diucapin pas nembak gimana, gitu kali ya?

ada yg lainnya yg diminta dlm 'doa nembak' yg gw lupa include di atas?
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semua tergantung point of view and motif masing2.
Memank fenomena seperti ini umum terjadi terutama di kota besar, para husband serink berlaku selayak single, tetap ke pub and flirt many women.
Ada yg memank benar mencari teman bincang dan curhat, ada juga yg memank (cari) selingkuhan lol. Prinsipnya, kita harus mengerti sifat dasar manusia (pria), yaitu ingin dimengerti dan dibutuhkan. Jadi pertanyaan benar dan tidaknya kelakuan mereka kadang susah dijawab harus dilihat case per case. Terkadang, istri mereka itu (bisajadi) terlalu menuntut, cerewet dan lain2.

Mari kita perjelas, tentu jk terjadi perselingkuhan, bhakan sexually yah sudah salah, si husband telah melanggar komitmen pernikahan. Tapi so far, menurut i, jika seorang pria yg sudah married suka curhat dgn wanita single (or not single) is okay. Terkadang dengan curhat dan berbagi bahkan mereka dapat melihat masalah mereka dgn jelas dan memperbaiki hidup masing2.
Menganai pria yg sudah py pacar tp suka curhat dgn other women..ya tentu gapapa lah ,wajar dunk jika pria (dan wanita) menginginkan pasangan yg terbaik dan kesempatan itu hy bisa didapat selama kita belum menikah bukan. Tentu jika tahap hub sudah mau serius menikah yah sudah harus mulai tutup hati lah dengan wanita lain.

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*usil mode* Emang doanya isinya paan sih?
- Minta Tuhan bukain jalan kalo jodoh spy pas nembak gak ditolak ..
- ato mungkin minta Tuhan kasih tanda apa / kapan bole nembaknya ..
- ato minta Tuhan kasih tanda lewat mimpi kata2 yg kudu diucapin pas nembak gimana, gitu kali ya?

ada yg lainnya yg diminta dlm 'doa nembak' yg gw lupa include di atas?
Ada! Doa nya gini "Tuhan... Tolong tembakin dia buat gw donk..............."
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co memang suka pura-pura deket ce-nya, itu juga terjadi sama aku kalo lagi deket ce aku. kalo iseng di depan ce aku sih sejauh mungkin dihindarin, tapi yang paling ga bisa disembunyiin kalo lagi jalan bareng dia n dia sering ngambek kalo aku tuh jalan sambil ngeliatin perempuan2 yang wara-wiri. menurut aku sih, dia ga usah marah karena aku cuman apresiasi aja, tidak lebih karena dia adalah segalanya buat aku. ceileh...
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Biarpun uda punya pacar (entah masa pacaran 1, 5, 10 taon - wuih uda buluk ) tp si cowo tetap berlaku layaknya single & ttm-an dgn siapa aja yg disuka, dgn alasan cuma iseng & tidak menyakiti siapa pun.

Catatan: si cowo membandingkan cewenya dgn ttm2nya (ngitung2 plus, minus & kira2 cocokan ama yg mana dllsb).
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1) Apakah menurut kalian hal tsb lumrah & oke2 aja krn toh (katanya) cuma iseng?
tidak lumrah.iseng2 juga bisa bahaya, bahkan ada bisa jadi anak wkwkwkwkwkwk... kasian yak yg punya cowo ber type2 gini

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2) Apakah menurut kalian dr 'iseng' tsb justru akan menggoyahkan (ato malah mengeratkan) hubungan perpacaran dgn sang pacar mengingat si cowo ampe ngebandingin cewenya dgn ttm
iseng ber TTM dgn yang laen bisa mengeratkan?? uhmm.. kayaknya gak deh..
yyah kecuali kalo si cowo bertingkah gitunya karna suatu hal2 tertentu.. cari perhatian si cewenya kali... bs krna alesan macem2. maksudnya bukan karna emang sifat bawaan aslina si cowo yg suka plesar plesar sana sini :P susah kalo dah hobby


soal banding2in asal dalem hati aja ya boleh lah.. jgn di verbal kan and apalagi sambil di coba2..mo sampe kapan coba.... kalo ada cowo gitu, kasian aja..
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mungkin cara pikir gw kolot nih, kalo gw dah punya pacar makhluk tidak sejenis kecuali sodara stand away at least 1 meter from me aneh aja yak kalo masih menganggap atau bersikap diri masih single.. palagi TTMan.. lha entar yg co punya TTM yg ce juga punya TTM... trus akhirnya deket sama TTMnya masing2... trus jadiannya sama TTMnya masing2... kacau bah...
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