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Old 10th July 2008
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Exclamation foto2 mesra ma pacar

Waktu gw bongkar2 lemari,gw ketemu 1 album foto yang kayaknya asing.
Setelah gw buka,ternyata itu album punya adik gw.
Lalu gw buka n pelototin halaman demi halaman,gw ngerasa geli sendiri ngeliatnya.
Tuh album di penuhi ma foto2 dia ma ex mantannya dengan berbagai gaya yang mengumbar kemesraan.

Lantas gw mikir,knapa tuh foto2 masih disimpen,sedangkan gw tau sejarah putusnya ga dalam kondisi baik2.

Gw sendiri masih nyimpenin beberapa foto mantan,tapi bukan dalam rangka mengenang2 kenangan bareng doi.
Tapi karna kebetulan aja gw hobby ngumpulin foto2 orang2 yang pernah deket ma gw.
Jangankan foto mantan,foto tetangga-temen dari tk ampe sekarang juga masih rapi gw simpen.

Pertanyaanya,masih branikah hari2 ini kita foto2 dengan pacar dengan adegan mesra jika ternyata someday putus?
Seperti kasus yang marak di kalangan artis belakangan ini,foto2 tersebut akhirnya malah di salahgunain oleh salah satu pihak demi keuntungan tertentu.
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Jangankan foto mantan pacar. Foto mantan gebetan aj saya simpen. Tp klo mau dibuang syg. Huehehehe. Syg fotonya ya maxudnya.
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Knapa engga? Hidup cuma sekali and live to the fullest, sebab kita kaga tau akan hari esok. Kali aja ellu kaga pernah putus...nyesel deh ntar klo kaga pernah photo mesra mesraan. Klo putus, so what? Dibuang sayang, dikenang jangan....
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Gak pa2 la kk...
Toh kan cuma kenang2an.. tapi kudu ada keterbukaan ma pasangan kita yang sekarang kali ya..
Kasi tao, kalo nga ntar pas dia nemuin ndiri ma kaco balo de.. hehe
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Jangankan foto mantan pacar. Foto mantan gebetan aj saya simpen. Tp klo mau dibuang syg. Huehehehe. Syg fotonya ya maxudnya.
wah kolektor cewe nech?

Foto2 cewe maksudna.
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Gak pa2 la kk...
Toh kan cuma kenang2an.. tapi kudu ada keterbukaan ma pasangan kita yang sekarang kali ya..
Kasi tao, kalo nga ntar pas dia nemuin ndiri ma kaco balo de.. hehe
tul, itu kan hanya dokumentasi aja. siapa tahu kita bisa balikan lagi, kalo emang masih suka n ada jodoh. kalo enggak, ya... sayonara aja.
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[quote=bertzzie;508964]Gak pa2 la kk...
Toh kan cuma kenang2an.. tapi kudu ada keterbukaan ma pasangan kita yang sekarang kali ya..
Kasi tao, kalo nga ntar pas dia nemuin ndiri ma kaco balo de.. hehe[/QUOT

Gue setuju. Keterbukaan itu suangat penting. Bagusan partner tau dari kita dari pada orang lain.
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yah kalo cuma foto doang mah nggak masalah

lagian ngapain juga mikirin ampe spt itu ? toh kita khan tidak pernah tau bakal bubar or not so ya jalanin aja lah dan lakukan apapun yg diinginkan seperti berfoto2 ria, dll

kalo memelihara ketakutan akan putus hubungan tiap mau having relationship bukannya bikin capek hati sendiri baik untuk pihak co dan ce nya ?

so just enjoy that happy sweet moment sebisanya

nah kalo tentang penyalahgunaan foto2 tersebut spt yg terjadi di kalangan artis --> ya salah sendiri dong, hrsnya khan berani berbuat ya berani bertanggungjawab en dalam hal ini berani malu kalo tersebar foto2 yg rada fornografi
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Pertanyaanya,masih branikah hari2 ini kita foto2 dengan pacar dengan adegan mesra jika ternyata someday putus?
Seperti kasus yang marak di kalangan artis belakangan ini,foto2 tersebut akhirnya malah di salahgunain oleh salah satu pihak demi keuntungan tertentu.
Tergantung tiap orang menanggapinya seperti apa.......

klo ogud si paling buat ngusir lalet kali dirumah haghaghaghag

Terlalu jauh untuk berpikiran kesana emangnya artis.......

tapi seandainya bisa dijadikan bahan untuk mencari keuntungan sepihak ya musi simpen baik2 jgn ampe ketauan ......
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menurut aku sih tergantung diri sendiri..
coba kalo seandainya kita leat photo2 mesra antara pacar kita dengan mantannya, kira-kira perasaan apa yg muncul? cemburu? sedih? pengen bakar aja tuh photo2? ato biasa2 aja?
kalo emg biasa-biasa aja sih it's okey, boleh2 aja nyimpen photo mantan, kalo ga, lebih baek jgn deh.. segala sesuatu yg engkau ingin agar org lain perbuat kepadamu, perbuatlah dahulu kepada org lain..
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Pertanyaanya,masih branikah hari2 ini kita foto2 dengan pacar dengan adegan mesra jika ternyata someday putus?
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jalani aja..
kita ga tau apa yang akan terjadi di hari depan
but keep trust, that God will give the best for our future..always rely on God..
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Menurut saya sih boleh-boleh saja; benar tuh, hidup hanya sekali, demikian juga peristiwa dan kenangan itu hanya sekali saja; tidak ada kesempatan yang kedua. Wonderfull .... lha ...
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Foto kan ekspresi diri.
Salah satu ungkapan rasa sayang kita ma dia
Jadi ga ada salahnya
dan ga perlu fikir panjang deh
Kecuali foto bugil tentunya
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kalo jadian sampe berlanjut sich ngak apa2..tapi dari pengalaman gw dimana kami putus di jalan..yaaa foto tsb jadi aneh..aneh aja kami bisa berpelukan (twinky winky lala pooooh..) dan diplaza liat dia digandeng mesrah cwoq lain...hehehehe waktu meliat foto
kami tsb gw cuma mengumpat "hidup memang sontoloyo" hahahahaha
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wah kolektor cewe nech?
Aduh, jd maluw....
Hahaha. Gebetan yg ada foto berdua cm 1. Jd ga bs diblg kolektor dunk.
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Makanya jangan diumbar semuanya dong krn ga ada yg bisa nebak masa depan
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yah kalo cuma foto doang mah nggak masalah

lagian ngapain juga mikirin ampe spt itu ? toh kita khan tidak pernah tau bakal bubar or not so ya jalanin aja lah dan lakukan apapun yg diinginkan seperti berfoto2 ria, dll
Terus tuh foto disimpen ampe kapan mi,batesannya?
Ampe merid n ampe tua kayaknya asyik tuh,bisa dipake ngedongengin ke anak cucu klo dulu oma-opanya bekas kembang desa n' playboy kelas kambing...
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ah, cuma foto doang, ga apa apa kok.

pertanyaan pentingnya: seberapa mesra? wajar ga "mesra"nya?

kalo udah married, buang aja foto foto para mantan, untuk menghargai pasangan hidup kita... kecuali doi cuek bebek ga keberatan kita masih nyimpen artifacts tsb.
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Ya bener aja kan ditaruh di lemari, kalo dipasang di dinding lbh heran lagi tuh, skalian aja kalo udah merit banyak2an foto mantan, dijadiin wallpaper kmr pengantin gituh
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Terus tuh foto disimpen ampe kapan mi,batesannya?
Ampe merid n ampe tua kayaknya asyik tuh,bisa dipake ngedongengin ke anak cucu klo dulu oma-opanya bekas kembang desa n' playboy kelas kambing...
disimpan ampe kapan ?? wah kalo buat mami sich nggak masalah deh ampe kapan, nggak ada batas waktunya

mami tuh punya koleksi foto banyak dari foto dgn temen2 SMA, mantan, dll en semua ditaruh di semacam kotak penyimpanan
biasanya sich mami udah lupa foto2 apa aja
giliran pas bongkar2 ntah mau pindahan or apa, nah baru ketahuan ada foto apa aja dengan siapa aja...nah pas liat2 lagi sich ya senyum2 aja en lucu dan no feeling apa2 tuh krn emang udah masa lalu khan, semua hanya kenangan
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